Comments below relate to the James Tripp video
I WASNT LOOKING FOR IT THE FIRST TIME(NAUGHTY ME!),
BUT WHEN HE REPEATED IT ,I NOYICED EVERYTHING THAT WAS GOING ON,VERY INTERESTING AND MIND BROADENING,THANKS
My initial reaction as he was telling the story was that I would have asked her what kind of scary thoughts were those. But of course that would not have been taking into account the goal, which was to move beyond them, and to switch the thought pattern, which is what he did.
The example of the scary thoughts and happy thoughts have made this process so much clearer for me.
James told you twice that his daughter was 5, but still you asked him her age.